Matthew 9:18

Thursday, 17 April 2025

 

While He spoke these things to them, behold, a ruler came and worshiped Him, saying, “My daughter has just died, but come and lay Your hand on her and she will live.” Matthew 9:18

 

“He, speaking these to them, you behold! A ruler, having come, he kneeled to Him, saying that, ‘My daughter now, she died. But having come, You upon-set Your hand upon her, and she will live’” (CG).

 

In the previous verse, Jesus noted that they don’t put new wine into old wineskins. Rather, they put new wine into new skins. It is during this conversation that Matthew next says, “He, speaking these to them, you behold!”

 

What transpires at this time is a part of what is leading up to John the Baptist’s question to Jesus, which will be seen in Chapter 11. John’s disciples are there asking a question of Jesus. As such, it can be assumed that they will follow Jesus as He responds to the request that will now be made. Understanding this, it next says, “A ruler, having come, he kneeled to Him.”

 

The man’s position is a new noun, archon. It is derived from the verb archó to rule. Hence, it refers to a ruler of some sort. In this case, he is a ruler of the synagogue named Jairus, as noted in Mark 5. Whether this means he was the chief ruler or one of the officials there isn’t stated, but he held a ruling position in the synagogue.

 

His kneeling before Jesus is a mark of respect and humility. He is in a greater position within the society, and yet, he has humbled himself before Jesus. It demonstrates that something has informed him that Jesus is actually in a greater position in reality. Because of this, it next says he was “saying that, ‘My daughter now, she died.’”

 

Here the thugatér is introduced. It is a primary word signifying a female child. It can be used figuratively of the feminine position in general, such as “daughters of Jerusalem,” or “daughter of Zion.” In such a case, it is a Hebraism indicating belonging to a society, city, household, etc.

 

As for Jairus’ daughter, death is something common to all people. When a person dies, it is evident that it has happened. There are times when someone may still be alive, having been misdiagnosed for one reason or another, but that is an extremely rare occasion.

 

In other words, it is certain that the child has died. People who attempt to diminish the words of this account 1) weren’t there, 2) have to dismiss the words of those who would know, and thus, 3) make a claim based on biases that are not supported by the text.

 

We have the words that describe the situation and are asked to accept them as true and reliable. Understanding this, Jairus continues to speak, saying, “But having come, You upon-set Your hand upon her, and she will live.”

 

Another new word is seen here, epitithémi. It is derived from epi, upon, and tithémi, to set, lay, appoint, etc. In this case, it means to lay upon. Jairus believes that Jesus has this ability, and he is requesting that He come with him to have her life restored to her.

 

We can question what the basis of his faith in Jesus’ abilities is. In other words, what is it that would make this person think Jesus could do this? The answer is probably because of events that previously took place there in Capernaum. In Chapter 8, the centurion pleaded with Jesus to come and heal his servant. As noted, from the parallel account in Luke, this centurion had built the synagogue for them –

 

“Now when He concluded all His sayings in the hearing of the people, He entered Capernaum. 2 And a certain centurion’s servant, who was dear to him, was sick and ready to die. 3 So when he heard about Jesus, he sent elders of the Jews to Him, pleading with Him to come and heal his servant. 4 And when they came to Jesus, they begged Him earnestly, saying that the one for whom He should do this was deserving, 5 ‘for he loves our nation, and has built us a synagogue.’” Luke 7:1-5

 

Therefore, it is likely that he knew of the event and was placing the same trust in Jesus that the centurion had done. He very well may have been one of the elders who was sent to Jesus. Now, his child was dead. There was nowhere else to turn, and so he came to Jesus in the hope that the same power that worked through Him to heal the centurion’s servant would be available to restore his daughter to life.

 

Life application: If the conjecture about Jesus’ interaction with the centurion is correct, it is a subtle hint at the direction of the overall narrative as the life and ministry of Jesus unfolds, and which is unfortunately overlooked.

 

This synagogue ruler is right that Jesus can heal his daughter. It is also of note that he bowed before Jesus and requested Him to come and heal her. But there is a difference in the account with the centurion. Luke 7 continues with –

 

“Then Jesus went with them. And when He was already not far from the house, the centurion sent friends to Him, saying to Him, ‘Lord, do not trouble Yourself, for I am not worthy that You should enter under my roof. 7 Therefore I did not even think myself worthy to come to You. But say the word, and my servant will be healed. 8 For I also am a man placed under authority, having soldiers under me. And I say to one, “Go,” and he goes; and to another, “Come,” and he comes; and to my servant, “Do this,” and he does it.’” Luke 7:6-8

 

Even if the ruler of the synagogue has done nothing wrong and his actions are what would normally be expected, the contrast between the Gentile centurion and the Jewish ruler is still markedly noticeable. Instead of coming to Jesus and asking Him to heal his daughter immediately, he instead asked Him to come and place His hands upon her.

 

This subtle difference demonstrates a great chasm between the faith of the centurion and the synagogue ruler. Even if this is not noticeably highlighted, it follows the pattern set time and again in Scripture. God is looking for faith above all else. At what point will our faith be established?

 

Will our faith be proven by sight? Do we need a miracle to establish our belief in the capabilities of the Lord? Will our faith be strengthened through a new job or a promotion? Or is our faith strong enough to exist without any such things? The Gentile centurion’s faith was without sight. It was without the nearness of his presence to Jesus. It was also with the understanding that Jesus could accomplish His actions by verbal command alone.

 

Jairus was respectful and hopeful, but it appears the contrast is purposeful. His faith was one that desired to be validated through action rather than trusting that the action was already the sure outcome.

 

Let us have the faith that says, “Lord, we know you can do all things. Whether You grant our petition or not, we will never allow our faith in You to diminish.” With this, God will certainly be pleased.

 

Lord God, help us to be people of faith, even without sight or without results in our petitions to You. Help us to remember that what we want is not always what is right according to Your plan. When we do not receive what we have desired, may our faith remain steady and unwavering. Amen.